Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most interesting thing that we can ask when we are on a first date with someone. You just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview! Questions are the best way to get to know someone and show them we are interested in them. On a first date you just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview!
Dale Carnegie in his amazing must-read book, "How to win friends and influence people" shares about the power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
Have you ever been to a party and you have been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting - funny that! You probably did less that but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself leap-frogging to final base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you're a lady and want to brush a guy's ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you are genuine, you will always win someone over quickly. They will feel your genuine interest and respond. Because people who're genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are most popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here are 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was really rude, would you spit in their soup or even think to do this?
2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?
4. If you could become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do when you got there?
5. If someone were to make a comedy show about part of your life, which part would they script and what would be found in the script?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. What do you regret the most in your life?
8. What's the funniest experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with a person who is so way smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?
11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone what do you normally do, show it or hide it and why?
14. What is more important to you in a woman - good looks or intelligence?
And now let's get a little more risqu! Obviously you would have had a few drinks before asking some of these questions!
15. Have you ever had sex in a public place? If so were you seen?
16. What's the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What are your biggest sexual turn-ons and turn-offs?
19. Have you ever cheated on your partner? Did they ever find out? If so, what happened?
20. Have you ever been caught playing with yourself? If you did, how old where you and who caught you?
21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch?
Dale Carnegie in his amazing must-read book, "How to win friends and influence people" shares about the power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
Have you ever been to a party and you have been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting - funny that! You probably did less that but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself leap-frogging to final base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you're a lady and want to brush a guy's ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you are genuine, you will always win someone over quickly. They will feel your genuine interest and respond. Because people who're genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are most popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here are 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was really rude, would you spit in their soup or even think to do this?
2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?
4. If you could become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do when you got there?
5. If someone were to make a comedy show about part of your life, which part would they script and what would be found in the script?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. What do you regret the most in your life?
8. What's the funniest experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with a person who is so way smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?
11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone what do you normally do, show it or hide it and why?
14. What is more important to you in a woman - good looks or intelligence?
And now let's get a little more risqu! Obviously you would have had a few drinks before asking some of these questions!
15. Have you ever had sex in a public place? If so were you seen?
16. What's the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What are your biggest sexual turn-ons and turn-offs?
19. Have you ever cheated on your partner? Did they ever find out? If so, what happened?
20. Have you ever been caught playing with yourself? If you did, how old where you and who caught you?
21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch?
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