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Tuesday, November 10, 2009

How to Effectively Use Humor to Seduce Women

By Maxwell Durden

Are women naturally attracted to funny men? To those that watch as women perpetually become entirely infatuated with men who make them laugh, it will easily seem this way. However, there is much more to the picture than what is apparent.

Actually, the most powerful weapon that a man has to attract women is his flirting skill. To flirt is to interact with women in both a provocative and humorous way simultaneously.

What makes flirting so important?

Never forget that flirting is the be-all and end-all of your interaction with a women. Without flirting, you are lost. I'll come back to that in a bit, but first allow me to explain why just being a funny guy isn't enough to attract women. At least, not in the way that you want to attract them.

You've probably had a lot of women place you in the "just friends" category -- and chances are, a lot of these were women that you actually wanted to get with. Making women laugh without knowing how to make the conversation flirtatious is a sure fire way to get labeled as a "friend" quickly. To escape the friends zone, it is important that you master the art of flirting.

On the other hand, attempting to flirt with a woman in a non funny way is equally self-defeating. If you come on too strong to a woman without mixing humor into your approach, then you risk appearing threatening to her.

Don't over complicate things, either. Flirting properly can be an extremely fun thing to master. Sure, it takes a little bit of practice, but remember that once you know how to properly flirt with a woman, you have an unfair advantage over most men because very few men really know how to do this.

Don't make the mistake that many guys do by becoming a clown or a buffoon. This may get laughs from a woman, but it will not make her feel any sort of romantic connection with you. To make this romantic connection a reality, you always must get the balance right.

Buffoons are not attractive to good looking girls.

You no longer have to be misled; everyone loves a guy with a sense of humor, but making a woman laugh isn't all it's cracked up to be. Displaying the type of flirtatious humor that will make her giggle should be your objective when mingling with a girl.

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Anonymous said...

I agree that women prefer and enjoy the company of a man that can make them laugh...and its not just some dumb jokes, it has to be well-timed humour.
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