A commonly heard complaint from many of the couples we work with is that their married life is so radically different from their dating life. Boyfriends who used to open car doors and bring flowers have become husbands who no longer bother, and girlfriends who used to listen have become wives who nag. What you get is a marriage in danger and a lot of unhappy and unfulfilled husbands and wives.
If any of this sounds familiar to you, I urge you to consider getting Christian marriage help. We've even put together a free DVD to help you on your way! My husband and I have been able to help over 10,000 couples overcome the problems plaguing their marriages. We can help you too.
We tend to accept this sea change in our relationships as a natural progression; we're told that's just the way things are. Conventional Christian marriage advice tells us that we are expecting too much out of our marriage, and we ought to just lower our expectations. So often the myth of miserable married life is played up on television and in movies. But this is the wrong way to think about our marriages. You must never, ever lower the expectations you have for your relationship.
God did not give us the gift of matrimony so that we would be constantly unhappy. God never once planned for our dating years to be wonderful and our married years to be miserable. God is the same yesterday, today, and forever. He never meant for our marriage to take on a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde life of its own. What we present to our partners is what we must continue to live up to throughout our marriage.
My husband Joel and I believe that Christian marriage counseling should revolve around the fact that God loves us and wants us to love each other through happy marriages. This is why we should remember to honor our vows to love, honor, and cherish our mates today as we loved, honored, and cherished them before we got married. Through the strength and love of God, we can enjoy a relationship that is exciting and fulfilling for years after it began.
If any of this sounds familiar to you, I urge you to consider getting Christian marriage help. We've even put together a free DVD to help you on your way! My husband and I have been able to help over 10,000 couples overcome the problems plaguing their marriages. We can help you too.
We tend to accept this sea change in our relationships as a natural progression; we're told that's just the way things are. Conventional Christian marriage advice tells us that we are expecting too much out of our marriage, and we ought to just lower our expectations. So often the myth of miserable married life is played up on television and in movies. But this is the wrong way to think about our marriages. You must never, ever lower the expectations you have for your relationship.
God did not give us the gift of matrimony so that we would be constantly unhappy. God never once planned for our dating years to be wonderful and our married years to be miserable. God is the same yesterday, today, and forever. He never meant for our marriage to take on a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde life of its own. What we present to our partners is what we must continue to live up to throughout our marriage.
My husband Joel and I believe that Christian marriage counseling should revolve around the fact that God loves us and wants us to love each other through happy marriages. This is why we should remember to honor our vows to love, honor, and cherish our mates today as we loved, honored, and cherished them before we got married. Through the strength and love of God, we can enjoy a relationship that is exciting and fulfilling for years after it began.
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