Seduction is a wonderful game. This involves employing some amount of touching to get the girl interested. Picking up a girl is difficult without having first established mutual tactility. This is one of the great challenges when picking up women--since not all will not respond positively and may not even be open to your touching. How does one approach a girl to establish physical closeness without making the girl too uncomfortable?
Often men just go for it and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness.
Some men will not risk putting a girl off so they do not go about touching them. With this, men are misconstrued that they are not interested, when in fact they are; they are misconstrued to be timid to make the move, when in fact they are really not. To avoid being thought of by girls to be either of these categories, how do men proceed then?
Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore dont appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that youre a confident guy whos not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, lets take a look.
1. Most men think that touching a girl on first dates are uncalled for. Not true. One must understand that some degree of physical touch (done tastefully), will help establish an immediate bond between the two of you. You can talk to her while gently touching the outside of her arm--immediately creating that positive and strong first impression.
By touching the outside of her arms, you are merely being casual and you are not crossing the boundary towards over aggressiveness. Tapping or touching the outside of her arms will be effective in giving a clear signal that you are fond of her and you are interested--nothing more. Do this and see the results.
2. Having already talked with her for some time, don't do without the casual touching. This will increase the level of closeness each feels for the other. More so, the physical attraction is heightened as time passes by. So do this correctly and you will increase your chances of success. You can use what has been called Stealth Tactility to proceed effectively.
What stealth tactility involves is some degree of casual physical contact, which is disguised, so that you get away with it while heightening your bond with each other. Like when both of you are in a bar, and she asks for directions, you can easily put your hand on her shoulder and keeping her body close to yours, while you show her the way.
3. Last but not least, is to end a conversation with a kiss or a hug. Ending it this way will ensure a more lasting impression as you bid each other farewell. When you finally have to leave, why not give her a casual kiss on the cheek?
Some men think that having secured a second date is already enough. Well, most of the times it is. But if you really want to leave a lasting impression, you should leave her a kiss as you go--just to give her something to think about on the next date. It is always to your advantage to play some psychology a little so that she will consistently think about you.
Often men just go for it and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness.
Some men will not risk putting a girl off so they do not go about touching them. With this, men are misconstrued that they are not interested, when in fact they are; they are misconstrued to be timid to make the move, when in fact they are really not. To avoid being thought of by girls to be either of these categories, how do men proceed then?
Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore dont appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that youre a confident guy whos not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, lets take a look.
1. Most men think that touching a girl on first dates are uncalled for. Not true. One must understand that some degree of physical touch (done tastefully), will help establish an immediate bond between the two of you. You can talk to her while gently touching the outside of her arm--immediately creating that positive and strong first impression.
By touching the outside of her arms, you are merely being casual and you are not crossing the boundary towards over aggressiveness. Tapping or touching the outside of her arms will be effective in giving a clear signal that you are fond of her and you are interested--nothing more. Do this and see the results.
2. Having already talked with her for some time, don't do without the casual touching. This will increase the level of closeness each feels for the other. More so, the physical attraction is heightened as time passes by. So do this correctly and you will increase your chances of success. You can use what has been called Stealth Tactility to proceed effectively.
What stealth tactility involves is some degree of casual physical contact, which is disguised, so that you get away with it while heightening your bond with each other. Like when both of you are in a bar, and she asks for directions, you can easily put your hand on her shoulder and keeping her body close to yours, while you show her the way.
3. Last but not least, is to end a conversation with a kiss or a hug. Ending it this way will ensure a more lasting impression as you bid each other farewell. When you finally have to leave, why not give her a casual kiss on the cheek?
Some men think that having secured a second date is already enough. Well, most of the times it is. But if you really want to leave a lasting impression, you should leave her a kiss as you go--just to give her something to think about on the next date. It is always to your advantage to play some psychology a little so that she will consistently think about you.
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