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Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Divorce and Religion Have Familiar Histories

By Carol Cavanaugh

No social structure is as old as marriage. The Bible, in Genesis, tells of how God created Adam and Eve, and married them. However, almost as quickly, the rise of divorce came about. The practice was normal during Moses' time, and the Old Testament book of Numbers contains laws for annulment.

Instead of the rule, this will be the exception. It is a bit more commonplace, that it is understood, in Asian cultures. This is the case to an even greater degree in this modern age. This subject throughout the ages is a fascinating one. Let us turn to it now.

Not much information on the practice can be found outside of fragments and Biblical accounts until the rise of the Greek and Roman civilizations. In the eastern world, husband's married many wives, and the practice was common because of the lack of respect for marriage. Divorce is lawful in Muslim countries, but in the sight of Allah it is the most hated thing.

By the time of Greek society, however, marriage was regulated and accepted. Submit a request to a magistrate, in ancient Athens, and it would be judged as to whether it was lawful or not and either denied or granted. Though disapproved of early on in Roman culture, as Rome became less scrupulous it adopted the creed that marriages should be free. In theory, the husband or the wife could initiate a divorce at any time, but divorces remained rare.

When the Christian religion became dominant, marriage became more permanent. Divorce was not prevalent in the Middle Ages but there were some who went against that trend such as England's King Henry VIII. Six women became his wife during his reign, two of them he had beheaded.

It still occurred during Victoria's reign, but was strongly discouraged. More commonly, the husband and wife would live separate in a process known as an informal divorce. During the 18th and 19th centuries this was a normal occurrence, but towards the end of this period practices began to revert.

Divorce is a casual affair nowadays with the more casual legal procedure involved in it. In the United States, marriages end before the death of one partner 40% of the time. Earlier times had vastly different standards.

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